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Mature Gay Men
Over time, the age of desirability for gay men seems to get younger and younger. The age discrimination and lack of attention older or mature gay men receive is synonymous to the pressure some women feel to get married or have children by a certain age.
Today, gay men are coming out at younger ages. It's no longer a shock to hear of an openly gay 14-year-old or a 16-year-old in a gay relationship. Even gay bars see floods of 18-21 year old gay boys seeking love and sex from their peers, leaving older gay men on the side lines. The recent attention and broader acceptance of gay marriage has also contributed to increased pressure for gay men to find love "before it's too late" or "while they are still desirable."
Of course, this doesn't make mature gay men charity cases, it only increases the pressure as aging gay men begin to think about their futures. Some gay men also argue that other gays continue to search for the "fountain of youth" with plastic surgery, eating disorders, excessive gym hours and an obsession with body image.
I, myself, am one of those Mature Gay Men, that continues to search, but still having fun along the way.I don't plan to give up, give in, or let anyone tell me I'm too old. I'm in great shape, I have a sharp mind, alot of energy, and a spirit that won't quit. I Love my Life, I Love Men, and when I meet the guy I'm destined to be with, he'll always know - He Is Loved!
Today, gay men are coming out at younger ages. It's no longer a shock to hear of an openly gay 14-year-old or a 16-year-old in a gay relationship. Even gay bars see floods of 18-21 year old gay boys seeking love and sex from their peers, leaving older gay men on the side lines. The recent attention and broader acceptance of gay marriage has also contributed to increased pressure for gay men to find love "before it's too late" or "while they are still desirable."
Of course, this doesn't make mature gay men charity cases, it only increases the pressure as aging gay men begin to think about their futures. Some gay men also argue that other gays continue to search for the "fountain of youth" with plastic surgery, eating disorders, excessive gym hours and an obsession with body image.
I, myself, am one of those Mature Gay Men, that continues to search, but still having fun along the way.I don't plan to give up, give in, or let anyone tell me I'm too old. I'm in great shape, I have a sharp mind, alot of energy, and a spirit that won't quit. I Love my Life, I Love Men, and when I meet the guy I'm destined to be with, he'll always know - He Is Loved!
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